Jul 16 2019
‘What does that mean?’ She asked, ‘Is it different from a star?’
Well! I go through foodie phases, and knew enough to explain the basics: the stars, the guide, the ‘bib gourmand’s. But her curiosity sparked my own, beyond my existing knowledge. One innocuous question sent me down a most delightful Rabbit Hole, reading up on Michelin’s standards and history.
My enthusiasm stayed with me through the journey home, and as soon as we unpacked, I resumed my research. I found the BBC documentary, Michelin Madness. I discovered a list of this year’s inductions to the coveted star. I read about a 27-year old engineer with a project to try every Michelin-starred restaurant in San Francisco. His desire for completeness was contagious. Edinburgh has only four Michelin-starred restaurants. I could totally catch them all!
In my imagination, I like to let my whims run wild. Just for fun, I enjoy that bubbly, blinding New Project Feeling. Amidst all of this was a hesitation, prodding in the back of my mind. It said, Remember the Munros?
Last autumn on the ferry back from the Isle of Mull, Steve and I considered taking up ‘Munro Bagging’. A popular hillwalking challenge, the Munro list includes all 282 of Scotland’s peaks above 3,000 feet. We talked about it, but decided against it.
When I commit to a daunting list, I will follow through. I’ve read the complete works of Shakespeare, and even mastered French on Duolingo. I’ve learned that a project like this is fun at first, but becomes tiring in its arbitrariness.
A Munro is just a tall mountain. It’s not characterised by beauty, or enjoyment, or dog friendliness. A Michelin star would be more relevant to me if its judges were vegetarian and lactose intolerant.
A while ago, I’d phoned a Michelin-starred restaurant about my dietary needs. They could cater for me, but warned me that I’d be missing out. Although disappointed, I appreciate their honesty, and respect their focus. If they’re angling for a second star, they must remain dedicated to perfecting one tasting menu. If I choose my meals with that same dedication, based on my own criteria, I will find a better fit for myself.
Each restaurant, each mountain, is its own chapter in my story – not just an item on a list. Society teaches us to bullet-point life because this is more measurable: by teachers, by employers, by the Guinness company as it assembles its Book of World Records.
When a list appeals to me, there’s something to learn from its contents. I ask myself:
What is the real desire here, the one that may not be a neat and pretty checklist of things? What is the value to uncover, a habit to form, a daily life shift?
My attraction to Michelin and Munros uncovered new knowledge about my desires. Michelin stars revealed a personal yearning for artful dining experiences. With the Munros, I learned that I dislike ‘shopping for mountains’, and want to hop straight to the adventure.
Michelin tasting menus are expensive, but before even looking at the numbers, I consider the expense of my time and energy.
I listen to my wishes, and assess not how realistic they are, but whether I want them to come true. I close my eyes, envision its outcome as a reality, and pull out the pieces I want to keep.
Sometimes I commit to the full tasting menu version of a project, but more often than not, I like to cherry pick from the à la carte.
Until the next chapter,
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